Sztuka uwodzenia. Praktyczny przewodnik po tajemnicach manipulacji

Sztuka uwodzenia. Praktyczny przewodnik po tajemnicach manipulacji

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  • Author:Robert Greene
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Summary

Istnieje dziewięć typów uwodzicieli。 Jakim typem jesteś ty: SYRENĄ, ROZPUSTNIKIEM, IDEALNYM KOCHANKIEM, DANDYSEM, DUŻYM DZIECKIEM, KOKIETKĄ, CZARODZIEJEM, CHARYZMATYKIEM, czy GWIAZDĄ?

W tej bestsellerowej książce Robert Greene prezentuje zasady i metody sztuki uwodzenia。 Poznasz strategię i manewry, które pomogą ci roztaczać czar i dodadzą twojej sztuce uwodzenia finezji。

Opanowana do perfekcji sztuka uwodzenia staje się niebezpośrednią, subtelną formą władzy, a zarazem potężną bronią, która – jak pokazuje historia – często prowadziła do upadku imperiów, wygrywania wyborów, czy zniewolenia wielkich umysłów。

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Sassyaqua

Sorry but wtf what was that… if you want to know how to be toxic you can read it。 It also homophonic, misogynistic。 I am sad that the author can’t see a relationship without manipulation。 Bye

ACJ

The truth is - a LOT of this book is familiar - well it’s familiar to me because I’ve read Bancroft’s “Why does he do that” and this book is pretty much the “starting point” of that。 But it’s also familiar to me in the sense that all the movies, the things you see on TV these days is through this sort of reductive lens view of human relationships and romance。 l’m guessing it’s romance that the author was going for here because if he was advocating for domestic violence - well I wouldn’t be sur The truth is - a LOT of this book is familiar - well it’s familiar to me because I’ve read Bancroft’s “Why does he do that” and this book is pretty much the “starting point” of that。 But it’s also familiar to me in the sense that all the movies, the things you see on TV these days is through this sort of reductive lens view of human relationships and romance。 l’m guessing it’s romance that the author was going for here because if he was advocating for domestic violence - well I wouldn’t be surprised cause the language does allow for it to be interpreted in that way。 The Venn diagram of an abuser and a seducer, as per the author’s definition in this book, are very very very very close circles; and those in the area outside the intersection are just pure evil I guess。 I do appreciate the author for mentioning “The victim is to be sacrificed, not tortured。” Let’s put aside the fact that this book has grossly disturbing tones and has quite a violent language [the other person is referred to as “victim” or “target” and at one point even enemy], let’s put all that aside。 Let’s also put aside the fact that qualities are grouped in the their rather normative stereotyped gendered roles。 Let’s just put aside everything that can be called problematic about this book and what it suggests。 It can’t be denied。 I may dream and wish for a world not so sinister, but the reality is - the vast majority of it is。 And I have to live in it, live with it。 It is a rather reductive, perverse elaboration of human relations, but as long as the majority of society does live by this book, I guess that the points posited by the author will stand。 [One that’s at the top of my head is that you can’t be a saint and a seducer。]I had this geography teacher when I was in school and he was also our history teacher because this was not a very posh school。His classes were good, they were informative but they also glossed over a lot of the nuances of the topics。 The thing was - even though he did gloss over a lot of the nuances, what he said still stood 。Even though they were grossly reduced。 You could argue with him that a lot has been overlooked and history was not that straightforward- but at the end of the day- you could never say he was wrong。 Rough-handed with his understanding of history yes, but not wrong。 It’s the same with this book - it’s not delicate, detailed or pretty- but it’s a brutal mirror upto society。 Everyone around you is playing by these rules, consciously or subconsciously。 At least now you too know how to play the twisted rules of society - whether you wish to play by them or not I guess it’s up to you。It seems like an awful lot of work though, I must say。One good part of the book though - it will help you identify if someone is using these techniques so you can get the fuck away from them。 /Highlights from book。“Desirability is a social illusion。”“We can endure feeling that another person has more talent, or more money, but the sense that a rival is more desirable than we are - that is unbearable。”“Exactly, that's just it - I don't want any of the good things of life unless people are envious of them。” - Petronius, The Satyrnicon。 “No one can fall in love with you if he is even partially satisfied with what he has or who he is。 The experience of falling in love originates in an extreme depression, an inability to find something that has value in everyday life。 The “symptom” of predisposition to fall in love is not a conscious desire to do so, the intense desire to enrich our lives; it is the profound sense of being worthless and having nothing that is valuable and the shame of not having。 It is for this reason falling in love occurs more frequently among young people since they are profoundly uncertain, unsure of their work and often ashamed of themselves。 “ - Francesco Alberoni, Falling in Love "The normal rhythm of life in general oscillates between a mild satisfaction with oneself and a slight discomfort originating in the knowledge of one's personal shortcomings。 We should like to be as handsome, young, strong or clever as other people of our acquaintance。 We wish we could achieve as much as they do, long for a similar advantage, the same or greater success。 To be delighted with oneself is the exception, and often enough a smokescreen which we produce for ourselves and of course for others。 Somewhere in it is a lingering feeling of discomfort with ourselves and a slight self-dislike。 I assert that an increase of the spirit of discontent renders a person exceptionally susceptible to falling in love, and in most cases this attitude of disquiet is conscious but in some it reaches the threshold of awareness in the form of a slight uneasiness or a stagnant dissatisfaction or a realization of being upset without knowing why。" - Theodor Reik, Of Love and Lust。 。。。more

Alise Bogdanova

grāmata rakstīta vīriešiem, bet, domāju, sievietei tādējādi diezgan efektīvi vairo izpratni par manipulāciju, tostarp emocionālu varmācību "dinamikas uzturēšanas vārdā"。ja pirmā puse šķita aizraujoša, sajūta tāda no sērijas "dejoju ar velnu, hihi" , tad otrā puse vienkārši šķebināja。 "objekts, upuris" un tās metodes。。 protams, daudz tur ir arī par dabisko pavedināšanas spēku, kas piemīt mums visiem, forši atrast, apzināt savus mehānismus。 bet nuuu。 jāatzīst, fakts, ka kāds tiešām pavedinātu tā s grāmata rakstīta vīriešiem, bet, domāju, sievietei tādējādi diezgan efektīvi vairo izpratni par manipulāciju, tostarp emocionālu varmācību "dinamikas uzturēšanas vārdā"。ja pirmā puse šķita aizraujoša, sajūta tāda no sērijas "dejoju ar velnu, hihi" , tad otrā puse vienkārši šķebināja。 "objekts, upuris" un tās metodes。。 protams, daudz tur ir arī par dabisko pavedināšanas spēku, kas piemīt mums visiem, forši atrast, apzināt savus mehānismus。 bet nuuu。 jāatzīst, fakts, ka kāds tiešām pavedinātu tā soli pa solim, lika man sajusties visai nekomfortabli。 šī varētu būt viena reize, kad priecāties, ka vīrieši nelasa。 aizverot grāmatu skaļi noteicu "jopcik" un nobāzu от греха по дальше。 。。。more

cc

recommend this to anyone who’s a girlboss

Alaine Louki

Incredibly interesting!!

R。S Green

I’ve read a few books on this topic and it’s ok-ish。 To follow it probably requires a lack of morals though。 In the first half, as much as it’s interesting, it needs more examples > maybe public figures or film/tv characters…and application of the archetypes。There are a few nuggets of helpful info but it needs mining and patience。 There are better books out there - it’s a 2。5/5 for me。

verena

reading this book was a waste of money and time。 i didn‘t learn any new things by reading it。 everything the author tries to teach us is mentioned about a thousand times。 although it only has 200 pages, this book is unnecessarily long and drawn-out。

Teo Mona

This book could sound manipulative even evil。 But I like the first part where it told you which type of "seducer" you are。 I think it's good to know and understand more charm you naturally possess and work to enhance/highlight it。 Sometimes you even mistake it as a flaw and try to change it, this book might help you see it in a different light and embrace it。Part two is probably more controversial。 But I think it could help you understand and realize the situation when you are being "seduced" to This book could sound manipulative even evil。 But I like the first part where it told you which type of "seducer" you are。 I think it's good to know and understand more charm you naturally possess and work to enhance/highlight it。 Sometimes you even mistake it as a flaw and try to change it, this book might help you see it in a different light and embrace it。Part two is probably more controversial。 But I think it could help you understand and realize the situation when you are being "seduced" too。 It gives you a bit more control。 Also, I feel we actually have done many of these "tricks" without realizing it。 Only reading it and seeing it in words makes us feel horrid。 。。。more

محمد هِج‌هاگ

بعضی جاها کلی گویی بود。 ملموس نبود。 ای‌کاش مثال‌های کوتاه بیشتری داشت。 مفهوم دو سه تا از قانون‌ها رو درک نکردم。 بعضی از قانون‌ها هم تکراری بود。 باز هم کلی سوال بی‌جواب تو ذهنم هست。نویسنده تلاش کرده که مطالب رو برحسب فازهای مختلف اغوا و تشکیل رابطه دسته بندی کنه。 اما به نظرم دسته بندی مطالب می‌تونست خیلی بهتر از وضعیت فعلی باشه。در مجموع چند تا نکته‌ی طلایی رو بهم یاد داد که قبلا رعایت نکرده بودم و چوبش رو خورده بودم。 حتی فهمیدم که طرف مقابلم خیلی کارکشته تر از من بود و چند تا از قوانین این کتاب ر بعضی جاها کلی گویی بود。 ملموس نبود。 ای‌کاش مثال‌های کوتاه بیشتری داشت。 مفهوم دو سه تا از قانون‌ها رو درک نکردم。 بعضی از قانون‌ها هم تکراری بود。 باز هم کلی سوال بی‌جواب تو ذهنم هست。نویسنده تلاش کرده که مطالب رو برحسب فازهای مختلف اغوا و تشکیل رابطه دسته بندی کنه。 اما به نظرم دسته بندی مطالب می‌تونست خیلی بهتر از وضعیت فعلی باشه。در مجموع چند تا نکته‌ی طلایی رو بهم یاد داد که قبلا رعایت نکرده بودم و چوبش رو خورده بودم。 حتی فهمیدم که طرف مقابلم خیلی کارکشته تر از من بود و چند تا از قوانین این کتاب رو روی من پیاده کرده بود。 البته بعید می‌دونم چنین کتابی خونده باشه。 به هر حال برخلاف اون چیزی که من فک می‌کردم، ساده‌لوح نبود و همین که به من القا کرده بود نیتی نداره، خودش یه زرنگی خاص میخواد。 این کتاب رو بخونید。 گارد نگیرید。 و به هیچ کس از اونایی که شما رو میشناسن نگید که چنین کتابی رو خوندی。 اگه روزی عشقت این کتاب رو بخونه و خبر داشته باشه که تو هم این کتاب رو خوندی، رابطه‌تون به زودی نابود میشه。 به قول نویسنده طلسم میشکنه。 خدا رو شکر که کتاب به فارسی ترجمه نشده。کتاب فرمول جادویی ارائه نمی‌ده。 ولی دست‌کم کمتر گند می‌زنید。 در حد یه خلاصه خوب بود ولی نیازه که در آینده کتاب اصلی رو بخونم。 。。。more

Sofia Chudzik Bauer

Da mesma forma que ele tem algumas dicas interessantes (não apenas para sedução amorosa e sexual), ele foca num curto prazo e tende para a manipulação, mentira, falsidade e exagero。Você até vai conseguir usar as táticas pra seduzir mas ele não vai trazer nada de significativo e longo, só vai ensinar você a alimentar seu ego。Se você não quer nada sério com ninguém, é bom, caso queira que sua sedução vire algo mais, esse livro vai ser péssimo。Mas odeio coisas que pendem pra manipulação e mentira, Da mesma forma que ele tem algumas dicas interessantes (não apenas para sedução amorosa e sexual), ele foca num curto prazo e tende para a manipulação, mentira, falsidade e exagero。Você até vai conseguir usar as táticas pra seduzir mas ele não vai trazer nada de significativo e longo, só vai ensinar você a alimentar seu ego。Se você não quer nada sério com ninguém, é bom, caso queira que sua sedução vire algo mais, esse livro vai ser péssimo。Mas odeio coisas que pendem pra manipulação e mentira, então não gostei tanto assim。 。。。more

gunmetalandroses

going to seduce my teacher for an A+

Yahia Maged

Very boring book, asking the people to be fake and to build a weird character with no feelings or thoughts and to deal with people "victims" with coldness and harshness and to fake everything for the sake of getting the one you like, with a high chance that everything will fade one day and you have to break with them with no closure to keep them wondering all there life about what happened。 Absolutely non sense! Very boring book, asking the people to be fake and to build a weird character with no feelings or thoughts and to deal with people "victims" with coldness and harshness and to fake everything for the sake of getting the one you like, with a high chance that everything will fade one day and you have to break with them with no closure to keep them wondering all there life about what happened。 Absolutely non sense! 。。。more

Atila Santos

Um bom texto sobre o tema。 Talvez a edição completa preencha algumas lacunas entre as estratégias mas, de maneira geral, é um bom apanhado sobre o convencimento。

Ali Alsaffar

I only read the “concise” and I got so bored。 God help those who read the non-concise。

Jose Amezcua

The audible version in Spanish for this one is not good。 I think it needs to be fixed。

Duncan Akyeampong

What can I say? Really good book 📖。 It helped me understand that seduction is a power that we all have, and it can lead to good or bad things, but we should never be afraid of what we desire the most。

Dan Cristino

I BET YOU, IT WORKS!!!

Michelle Real

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 To summarize what I have read and understand, here are the types of seducers: 1。 Siren - more on physicalityTone of voice, face and body, movement or gestures, allure man through visual (man's weakness)2。 The Rake- allure woman through language (woman's weakness)3。 The ideal lover - provides what is lacking to their seduced。 4。 The dandy - Narcissistic, has their own style。 5。 The Natural - natural seducers, act on innocence 6。 The Coquette- Self-sufficient (perfect in a relationship) and knows To summarize what I have read and understand, here are the types of seducers: 1。 Siren - more on physicalityTone of voice, face and body, movement or gestures, allure man through visual (man's weakness)2。 The Rake- allure woman through language (woman's weakness)3。 The ideal lover - provides what is lacking to their seduced。 4。 The dandy - Narcissistic, has their own style。 5。 The Natural - natural seducers, act on innocence 6。 The Coquette- Self-sufficient (perfect in a relationship) and knows when to give pleasure then at the proper time knows to withdraw。 7。 The Charmer-people must be dependent on them (this must be the seduction type in the office), they must feel at ease in your presence, you must show calmness in the midst of adversity。 8。 The Star- acts like an actor。 Additional notes that may be essential to our everyday life:1。 Confidence makes us more attractive2。 Dicover your self, and what is seductive about you。3。 You have to enter into their lives bringing adventure/happiness and love。4。 You have to know what they need, and they must get it from you。 。。。more

Medo Hamdani

If there is an updated version of it with a simple flow of information, then it would be better。

Judy Sy

So concise, I didn't get to digest slowly。 I would read the full version to appreciate it more。It has some points that I could relate to and some points that I don't resonate with。 So concise, I didn't get to digest slowly。 I would read the full version to appreciate it more。It has some points that I could relate to and some points that I don't resonate with。 。。。more

Gwen

2。5If you are a western white man and believe that there are only two genders, then is this the book for you。 Honestly, this book is The Laws of Power but just rewrapped so all of the stories concern sex or romance。 Like his other book, it really started to drag and sound repetitive about halfway through。 Also like his other book, it was written from a starkly obvious Western male perspective。 I think Robert Greene can benefit from taking a Women & Gender Studies class since he claims to be such 2。5If you are a western white man and believe that there are only two genders, then is this the book for you。 Honestly, this book is The Laws of Power but just rewrapped so all of the stories concern sex or romance。 Like his other book, it really started to drag and sound repetitive about halfway through。 Also like his other book, it was written from a starkly obvious Western male perspective。 I think Robert Greene can benefit from taking a Women & Gender Studies class since he claims to be such an expert on the female mind。 。。。more

Carlos Carlos

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 A

Ramon Munoz

Simply mind blowing。 A must read for everyone。 You will view the world so differently it might as well be a curse。

Yushi Wei

Dark? Yes, absolutely。Useful? To know。GRE vocab? Ironically yes, having taken the GRE recently, I have found plenty of GRE words in here

Books of Magic

I read most of the pages。 I didn't read the whole book as I read it for study purpose at the university。 I read most of the pages。 I didn't read the whole book as I read it for study purpose at the university。 。。。more

Muath Aziz

This book is, literally, full of meaningless words。 I am wondering how he wrote it。 Regardless of this being Game Theory at its worst, this book is not for the shy; it's for the weak。 I've never done such calculated actions, and when I do subconsciously and I notice, I emphasize it to myself and the other person。 I am indeed shy, but I'm not shy of my shyness。Plus, I can't take seriously any book that has a set of characters you should fall into。 That's the same as horoscopes。 Also look at how h This book is, literally, full of meaningless words。 I am wondering how he wrote it。 Regardless of this being Game Theory at its worst, this book is not for the shy; it's for the weak。 I've never done such calculated actions, and when I do subconsciously and I notice, I emphasize it to myself and the other person。 I am indeed shy, but I'm not shy of my shyness。Plus, I can't take seriously any book that has a set of characters you should fall into。 That's the same as horoscopes。 Also look at how he uses symbols too that helps the memory and the imagination of that certain character or action, again, horoscopes。 (I'm cancer btw)。When I bought it, I was hoping that it will be more poetic or at least more philosophical。 Unfortunately for me, this book is wasn't written by South American, those Latinas know how to dance instinctively! (Btw, this book was written by a guy from Los Angles, so yeah。。)Anyways, long live the Übermensch! 。。。more

Kanwar Anand

Don't read the concise edition like I did。 I found it quite average。 Don't read the concise edition like I did。 I found it quite average。 。。。more

Paul Lindholm

I started reading The Art of Seduction because I was a huge fan of Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power。 I enjoy his style and how he fits in scenarios of other people the scenario has applied to in history。 I am not giving this book 4 stars because it is bad by any means, but compared to his other book it is missing much of the depth through stories that his previous book contained (don’t know if this is just because of the concise edition)。 I will discuss through this review the way it was set up, I started reading The Art of Seduction because I was a huge fan of Robert Greene’s 48 Laws of Power。 I enjoy his style and how he fits in scenarios of other people the scenario has applied to in history。 I am not giving this book 4 stars because it is bad by any means, but compared to his other book it is missing much of the depth through stories that his previous book contained (don’t know if this is just because of the concise edition)。 I will discuss through this review the way it was set up, the content that it contained and the overall rating。 I will discuss the pros and cons below and summarize my rating on a scale of 10。 Pros: Fantastic verbiage and use of imagery through symbols。 Great Layout stating the different characters each of us plays。 The first portion discusses the different characters whereas the second portion discusses different methods for seducing people。 There are many quotes and historical excerpts that help to gain a better understanding of the text。 Throughout the book I would underline different phrases that I would like to apply to my life。 I burned through this book so quickly and wish I bought the full book at the end。 Cons: I didn’t know how I should apply these concepts。 Yes, I understand that it is geared towards getting some women to fall for you, but many of these concepts could and should be applied to your careers more so than landing the cute women at the bar。 The book was dark, but that’s what keeps me coming back for more of Robert Greene’s books。 I had a hard time retaining much of the information because most of it was extremely theoretical, and I think I will have a much harder time applying this to my life unless I focus chapter by chapter。 Also some of the quotes and historical excerpts were very advanced and left me confused often times。 I often felt confused whether he was talking to me as being a seducer or simply talking about a seducer in general。 Overall I will give this book an 8/10 and I highly recommend giving it a try if you are a fan of Robert Greene’s books。 I will certainly be referring to this book in the future if I ever need guidance in trying to seduce someone。 You can use this book for good or for bad, like anything in life it is all on how you take action。 。。。more

Shahad Al Melhem

This is a short guide on how to be the following:1。 Fake2。 Liar3。 Backstabber4。 Stalker5。 Psychopath6。 Manipulative

Jorge A。 Trejo

Lo he disfrutado aunque tengo que decir que me has gustado más otros títulos del autor (las 33 estrategias de la guerra, 48 leyes del poder, maestría)。 Es un buen libro que se lee rápidamente y siguiendo el mismo estilo del autor。